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10 Reasons Why Household Chores Are Important

Whether we like it or not, household chores are a necessary part of everyday life, ensuring that our homes continue to run efficiently, and that our living environments remain organized and clean, thereby promoting good overall health and safety. Involving children in household chores gives them opportunity to become active participant in the house. Kids begin to see themselves as important contributors to the family. Holding children accountable for their chores can increase a sense of themselves as responsible and actually make them more responsible.

Children will feel more capable for having met their obligations and completed their tasks. If you let children off the hook for chores because they have too much schoolwork or need to practice a sport, then you are saying, intentionally or not, that their academic or athletic skills are most important. And if your children fail a test or fail to block the winning shot, then they have failed at what you deem to be most important.

They do not have other pillars of competency upon which to rely. By completing household tasks, they may not always be the star student or athlete, but they will know that they can contribute to the family, begin to take care of themselves, and learn skills that they will need as an adult. Here is a list of household chores for kids:

1. Sense of Responsibility

Kids who do chores learn responsibility and gain important life skills that will serve them well throughout their lives. Kids feel competent when they do their chores. Whether they’re making their bed or they’re sweeping the floor, helping out around the house gives them a sense of accomplishment. Doing daily household chores also helps kids feel like they’re part of the team. Pitching in and helping family members is good for them and it encourages them to be good citizens.

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2. Beneficial to siblings

It is helpful for siblings of kids who have disabilities to see that everyone in the family participates in keeping the family home running, each with responsibilities that are appropriate for his or her unique skill sets and abilities.

Having responsibilities like chores provides one with a sense of both purpose and accomplishment.

4. Preparation for Employment

Learning how to carry out household chore is an important precursor to employment. Chores can serve as an opportunity to explore what your child excels at and could possibly pursue as a job down the road.

5. Make your life easier

Your kids can actually be of help to you! At first, teaching these chores may require more of your time and energy, but in many cases your child will be able to eventually do his or her chores completely independently, ultimately relieving you of certain responsibilities.

6. Chores may make your child more accountable

If your child realizes the consequences of making a mess, he or she may think twice, knowing that being more tidy in the present will help make chores easier.

7. Develop fine and gross motor skills and planning abilities

Tasks like opening a clothes pin, filling and manipulating a watering can and many more actions are like a workout for the body and brain and provide practical ways to flex those muscles!

8. Teach empathy

Helping others out and making their lives easier is a great way to teach empathy. After your daughter completes a chore, you can praise and thank her, stating, “Wow… great job! Because you helped out, now Mommy has one less job to do. I really appreciate that!”

9. Strengthen bonds with pets

There is a growing body of research about how animals can help individuals with special needs. When your child feeds and cares for his pet, it strengthens their bond and makes your pet more likely to gravitate toward your child.

10. Gain an appreciation and understanding of currency

What better way to teach your child the value of a rupee than by having him earn it. After your child finishes his chores,  pay him right away and immediately take him to his favorite toy store where he can buy something he wants.

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Doing Household Chores Can Keep Your Brain Healthy as You Age—So, Stop Putting Them Off

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  • Nan Wise, PhD , licensed psychotherapist, cognitive neuroscientist, and certified sex therapist

For the study, which sought to draw links between doing chores and brain health and cognition, 66 cognitively healthy older adults underwent three medical assessments, including a health evaluation, structural brain imaging, and a cognitive assessment. They were also asked how often they spent tidying up their home, meal-prepping, doing housework, yard work, and other to-do list activities.

The conclusion? Those who were 'to-do'-ing more around the home displayed more brain volume in the hippocampus and frontal lobe, which are the brain areas that help with memory, learning, and cognition. So essentially, when you’re performing seemingly mindless chores like, say, scrubbing your table or doing a load of laundry , you actually may be sharpening your brain.

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Of course, the study was limited in terms of its narrow testing and focus on a specifc age group, but it does track that the benefits of doing chores would include brain health. First, the organizational and planning aspect of chores (see: making your to-do list, color-coding the books on in your bookcase, and so on) may promote the formation of new neural connections. Second, chores may also keep you active in a way that's similar to low-intensity aerobic exercise, which can bolster heart health and, subsequently, help brain health, too.

"Lots of movement is the most important brain exercise known to man. So, however we can make the chore into something active can enhance the quality of our brain health." —Nan Wise, PhD, neuroscientist

"If we can be physically active when doing chores, that’s really good for the brain," says neuroscientist  Nan Wise, PhD . "Lots of movement is the most important brain exercise known to man. So, however we can make the chore into something active can enhance the quality of our brain health."

Furthermore, the benefits of doing chores can also extend to relieving stress , since cleaning can promote a sense of control, and organization can help calm down the nervous system. And considering that stress can compromise all facets of wellness , including our cognitive brain health, that’s a major win as well.

Still grimacing at the idea of cleaning your room? I get it—me, too. To help motivate yourself to grow to reap the benefits of doing chores, Dr. Wise suggests adding some creative movement into your routine. For instance, dance while vacuuming or dusting! Listen to music to make it as fun as possible. You can further gamify it however you'd like, too.

"Train your brain while doing chores in the house by changing things up," Dr. Wise suggests as a way to introduce novelty. "Think about how you can be most effective in going about your chores, and then implement some new routines. Do a bit of research about the best methods that you can use for cleaning or doing laundry or balancing your checkbook."

So while it may seem easier to let your water glasses linger in your room or go  just  one more week without Swiffering, it’s equally easy to get down and dirty with your chores...and help your mind stay sparkling for years to come.

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The Benefits of Giving Kids Chores

Why helping with household chores is good for your grade-schooler

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There are many advantages to giving kids chores to do around the house. While it can often be easier to just do the household chores yourself—especially when it takes five times as long to explain to your 5-year-old what needs to get done, and then supervise her while she does it—the fact is that helping out with everyday tasks is important for your child’s development. Find chores that your child will be able to do at his particular stage of development (some will be more suitable for younger kids while others will be perfect for older children to tackle by themselves) and work out a schedule and system that will work for your child.

Why Giving Kids Chores Can Be Good for Them

 The small tasks your 5-year-old can do around the house may not seem like much, but they can teach your child valuable lessons that will last into his preteen years and beyond. By the time your grade-schooler is 9 or 10-years-old, he can make significant contributions to household tasks. Some examples of the ways chores can benefit kids:

  • Giving kids chores can build self-esteem. Getting a chore done and doing it well can give your child a major sense of accomplishment. My 7-year-old vacuums and cleans the floor every weekend with a microfiber cloth. He sometimes grumbles when he’s not in the mood to do work, but he usually gets into it once he gets started. It also encourages independence because he's doing a good job by himself. And the look of satisfaction he gets on his face when he wrangles piles of dust bunnies: Priceless.
  • Giving kids chores can teach the importance of completing an assigned job. This will become more useful as your child gets older and has more responsibilities at school and at home.
  • Giving kids chores can emphasize the value of keeping things clean and organized. It’s easier to find things—and think clearly—when your environment is less cluttered. Getting your child into the habit of regularly picking up after herself is a great way to not only build a good routine that will benefit her for the rest of her life, but will help you keep cutting out the chaos in your house and make it more organized and peaceful.
  • Giving kids chores can set a pattern of helping around the house. Once you get your child into the household chore habit, it’ll become a part of his life that will continue into the teen years and beyond.
  • Giving kids chores can give him a sense of being part of the household "team." When my son asks why he has to do a chore, I explain that he’s a part of the family, and everyone in the family must do his share. By giving him the "we’re all in this together" way of looking at things, he is more likely to see his work as part of something bigger. He’s also less likely to see household chores as something he’s being singled out and forced to do since everyone is working together.

By Katherine Lee Katherine Lee is a parenting writer and a former editor at Parenting and Working Mother magazines.

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“Just wait a minute. I promise – I’ll do it later.” “Aw Mom, do I have to??” “Angie doesn’t have to do this; why do I have to?”

How many times have you heard these refrains or something similar when you request your children to do a chore around the house? Chances are it has been often.

Children can be pros at procrastination, excuses, resistance and refusal when it comes to chores. This causes much concern among parents and conflict between children and their parents.

From the Child’s Point of View

Why children resist doing chores.

Part of the explanation rests with the very nature of children.

Young children and teens are:

lacking in judgment. Most young children have no idea how much work is involved with the running of a household.

impulsive. They want what they want when they want it. Working at activities that are not immediately gratifying to them is not inherently on their agenda.

self-absorbed and concerned mainly about themselves and their own needs. They do not naturally consider the needs and expectations of others.

What Is Needed to be Motivated

Doing chores willingly requires:

  • mature judgment,
  • less impulsivity,
  • and more awareness of others’ perspectives and needs.

Children are not born with these traits; they develop gradually as children grow and mature.

Part of your job as parents is to socialize your children during the 18 or 20 years that they live with you by helping them to develop these mature qualities. Therefore, it should not be a surprise, and perhaps you should accept and expect, that they resist helping at home.

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Is it Worth the Struggle?

Insisting that chores be completed can feel like a never-ending battle. Because it can feel like you are constantly reminding, nagging, or imposing consequences just to get your children to follow through, you may decide to let chores slide. It becomes easier in the short run to do the jobs yourself.

Parents may be reluctant to engage in continuous struggles for fear of damaging their relationship with their children.

They may feel guilty asking their children to help; after all, children are so busy with all the other demands on them from school, peers and extra-curricular activities that you may be reluctant to add to the pressures.

Parents may believe their little ones are too young to take on responsibilities, not realizing how capable their youngsters actually can be.

The Benefits of Chores

The research.

Even though it is more difficult at the time to persist in having children do chores, kids benefit from the experience.  

Research indicates that those children who do have a set of chores have higher self-esteem, are more responsible, and are better able to deal with frustration and delay gratification, all of which contribute to greater success in school.

  Furthermore, research by Marty Rossman* shows that involving children in household tasks at an early age can have a positive impact later in life. In fact, says Rossman, “the best predictor of young adults’ success in their mid-20’s was that they participated in household tasks when they were three or four.”  

Life Skills

Doing chores gives a child the opportunity to give back to their parents for all you do for them. Kids begin to see themselves as important contributors to the family. They feel a connection to the family.

Holding them accountable for their chores can increase a sense of themselves as responsible and actually make them more responsible . Children will feel more capable for having met their obligations and completed their tasks.

One of the most frequently sited causes of over-indulgence stems from parents doing too much for their children and not expecting enough of them. Not being taught the skills of everyday living can limit children’s ability to function at age appropriate levels.

For example:

5-year-old Sara goes to kindergarten and is one of the few students who has no idea how to put on and button her own coat. Sam, age 7, goes to a friend’s house for dinner but does not know how to pour juice for himself. Fast forward to Beth who at age 18 goes away to college not knowing how to do her own laundry.

By expecting children to complete self-care tasks and to help with household chores, parents equip children with the skills to function independently in the outside world.

With only so many hours in a day, parents need to help children decide how to spend their time and to determine what is most important.

  • Self-Esteem

If you let children off the hook for chores because they have too much schoolwork or need to practice a sport, then you are saying, intentionally or not, that their academic or athletic skills are most important.

And if your children fail a test or fail to block the winning shot, then they have failed at what you deem to be most important. They do not have other pillars of competency upon which to rely.

By completing household tasks, they may not always be the star student or athlete, but they will know that they can contribute to the family, begin to take care of themselves, and learn skills that they will need as an adult.

Setting the Tone

Role modeling.

In addition to being steadfast in the belief that it is important to have children complete chores, your attitudes can help set the tone that will increase possible cooperation in your household. You can consider how you look at your “chores” – you are your children’s most important role model.

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You can send the message that chores are a bore and something to be avoided at all costs.

Conversely, you can send the message that these are the tasks that need to be completed in order for your household to run smoothly and that everyone in the family is encouraged and expected to participate.

Encouraging Participation

Young children naturally want to be a part of the family and want to help. Ideally, you will encourage their participation (even if it takes more work on your part in the short run).

By the age of three, youngsters can be assigned their own tasks, for which they are responsible, such as pulling up the sheets on their bed or placing the napkins on the table or sorting the laundry.

The size of the task does not matter; the responsibility associated with it does.

Assigning Chores

For those parents who did not begin a chore regimen when their kids were little, you can still start a plan now. You can take some time to think about what tasks you need help with, what life skills your children need to learn, and what are each child’s interests and abilities.  

Consider these Questions

What chores do you want completed in your home?

Are the ones already selected the best fit for each of your children and ones that are most meaningful to the running of your household?

Are there life skills that a particular child needs to learn?

Do you want to tie allowance to chore completion?

Ask for Input

As you contemplate these decisions, you can ask your children for their input. Children are more cooperative when they have a say. Also, brainstorm ideas for overcoming any obstacles you have faced in the past, such as children not following through, arguing, or not doing a thorough job.

Hold Family Meetings

Many parents hold a family meeting to discuss chores and when and how they will be starting, revising, or re-instating them. Such times together can build morale, improve relationships, and facilitate creative problem solving.

Update your Chore Plan

Some families use birthdays as natural markers for examining what responsibilities as well as what privileges their children are receiving.  

Other, naturally occurring breaks that lend themselves to instituting or revisiting a chore plan include the beginning or end of the school year or returning from vacations.  

One question that parents frequently ask is whether allowance should be tied to the completion of chores. This is a personal call, with experts weighing in on both sides.  

Option 1 – Do Chores to Earn Allowance

Some parents feel quite resentful of handing their children money if the youngsters do not assist with the running of the household.

For these parents, the money is an incentive for a job well done. Just as adults must learn to complete a job satisfactorily in order to be paid, some parents want to instill that same work ethic in their children.

Under these circumstances, parents would want to pay the child an allowance as compensation for a job well done.

Option 2 – Chores and Allowance are Separate

Other parents want their children to help around the house as a contributing member of the family , not because there is money or other external rewards associated with it.

These families believe that it takes a lot of effort for a household to function smoothly and that their children should participate without pay because they are a part of the family.

In addition, some families want their children to learn to be financially responsible and are concerned that if the chores are not satisfactorily completed, then their children will not receive pay and will not have the opportunity to budget or make spending choices.

For either of the above reasons, these families may want to separate chore completion from allowance.

Option 3 – Earn Privileges

One alternative to paying money may be to have children earn privileges for completing their chores .

For example, a teen may earn the right to use the car on the weekends by washing the automobile. A school-age child may earn the privilege to have friends over to play if he throws away the trash and puts away the games after a previous gathering.

Revisiting Allowance

Providing an allowance and under what circumstances is an individual decision, one that parents can revisit and alter during any of the re-evaluation sessions they hold as a family.

Be convinced of the importance of chores in developing your children’s character. If you firmly believe in their value, you will communicate this message to your children and you will be less likely to give in to their delay tactics or resistance.

Consider how you look at your “chores” – you are your children’s most important role model. As such, they will watch you and decide if responsibilities are met with acceptance and grace or with resentment and anger.

Make chores a regular part of the family routine – it is expected that everyone over the age of 3 will be responsible for certain tasks to keep the household functioning.

Decide if allowance will be given for the completion of chores.

Children may not thank you in the short term for giving them chores. This is a case where the goal is not necessarily to make your children happy; rather it is to teach them life skills and a sense of responsibility that will last a lifetime.

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Household chores: good for children, good for your family

Children can learn a lot from doing household chores.

Doing chores helps children learn about what they need to do to care for themselves, a home and a family. They  learn skills they can use in their adult lives, like preparing meals, cleaning, organising and gardening.

Being involved in chores also gives children  experience of relationship skills like communicating clearly, negotiating, cooperating and working as a team.

And when children contribute to family life, they might feel competent and responsible . Even if they don’t enjoy the chore, when they keep going they can feel satisfied that they’ve finished the task.

And sharing housework can also  help families work better and reduce family stress. When children help out, chores get done sooner, and parents have less to do. This frees up time for the family to do fun things together.

How to get children involved in chores

It’s best to start by choosing chores that work for children’s ages and abilities. Chores that are too hard can be frustrating – or even dangerous – and chores that are too easy might be boring.

Even young children can help with chores if you choose activities that are right for their age. You can start with simple jobs like packing up toys. Chores like this send the message that your child’s contribution is important.

It’s also important to think about chores or tasks that get your child involved in caring for the family as a whole. A simple one is getting your child to help with setting or clearing the table. Jobs like these are likely to give your child a sense of responsibility and participation.

If your child is old enough, you can have a family discussion about chores . This can reinforce the idea that the whole family contributes to how the household runs. Children over 6 years old can have a say in which chores they do.

You can  motivate your child to get involved in chores by:

  • doing the chore together until your child can do it on their own
  • being clear about each person’s chores for the day or week – write them down so they’re easy to remember
  • talking about why it’s great that a particular job has been done
  • showing an interest in how your child has done the job
  • praising positive behaviour like doing chores without being asked
  • using a  reward chart when you introduce a new chore.

Plenty of encouragement keeps children interested in helping. You can boost your child’s chances of success by explaining the job and telling your child they’re doing well. It’s also a good idea to thank your child for their contribution. This models gratitude and helps your child feel valued.

Pocket money for children’s chores

Some children are motivated to do chores for pocket money. But some families believe all family members have a responsibility to help, so they don’t give pocket money for chores.

If you decide to pay pocket money for chores, explain chores clearly and make sure the chores are regular, so there’s no confusion or bargaining about what needs to be done and when. For example, tell your child that tidying up their bedroom involves making their bed and putting their clothes away, and they need to do this each day.

Some families don’t link chores to pocket money but might pay extra pocket money for extra chores.

Chores for children of different ages

Here are ideas for chores for children of different ages.

Toddlers (2-3 years)

  • Help to tidy up toys after playtime.
  • Help to put laundry in the washing machine.
  • Help to fill a pet’s water bowl.

Preschoolers (4-5 years)

  • Set the table for meals.
  • Help to prepare meals, under supervision.
  • Help to put clean clothes into piles for each family member, ready to fold.
  • Help to do the grocery shopping and put away groceries.

School-age children and pre-teens (6-11 years)

  • Water the garden and indoor plants.
  • Help to hang out clothes and fold washing.
  • Take out rubbish.
  • Help to choose meals and do the shopping.
  • Help to prepare and serve meals, under supervision.
  • Vacuum or sweep floors.
  • Clean the bathroom sink, wipe down kitchen benches, or mop floors.
  • Empty the dishwasher.

Teenagers (12-18 years) Teenagers can do the chores they did when they were younger, but they can be responsible for doing them on their own.

Teenagers can also take on more difficult chores. For example, teenagers could do the washing, clean the bathroom and toilet, mow lawns, stack the dishwasher, do basic grocery shopping, or cook a simple family meal once a week.

When choosing chores for teenagers, think of the skills you’d like them to learn.

You can keep children motivated by letting them change jobs from time to time. This is also a way of rotating chores fairly among family members.

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How housework can improve our mental and physical health

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  • Older adults who continue to perform household chores have better cognition, attention span, and physical strength compared to those who no longer do their own home keeping chores.
  • Housework in older adults was also linked to a decreased risk of falls.
  • Below is an exploration of the science behind these statistics.

Housework is linked to sharper memory, attention span, and better leg strength, and by extension, greater protection against falls, in older adults, finds research published in the open access journal BMJ Open .

The findings were independent of other regular recreational and workplace physical activities, and active commuting.

Regular physical activity is good for maintaining optimal physical and mental health. And among older adults, it curbs the risks of long term conditions, falls, immobility, dependency and death.

Yet global monitoring data indicate that in 2016, physical activity was well below recommended weekly levels and had budged little in a decade, with people in high income countries more than twice as likely to be couch potatoes as those in low income countries.

Given that housework involves physical activity and is an indicator of the ability to live independently, the researchers wanted to explore whether doing the household chores might contribute to healthy aging and boost physical and mental capacity among older adults in a wealthy country.

They included 489 randomly selected adults, aged between 21 and 90, with fewer than 5 underlying conditions and no cognitive issues. All were living independently in one large residential town in Singapore, and able to carry out routine daily tasks.

Participants were divided into two age bands: 21-64 year olds (249; average age 44), classified as ‘younger’; and 65-90 year olds (240; average age 75), classified as ‘older.’

Walking (gait) speed and sit-to-stand speed from a chair (indicative of leg strength and falls risk) were used to assess physical ability. Validated tests were used to assess mental agility (short and delayed memory, visuospatial ability, language and attention span) and physiological factors linked to falls.

Participants were quizzed about the intensity and frequency of household chores they regularly did, as well as how many other types of physical activity they engaged in.

Light housework included washing up, dusting, making the bed, hanging out the washing, ironing, tidying up, and cooking. Heavy housework was defined as window cleaning, changing the bed, vacuuming, washing the floor, and activities such as painting/decorating.

Housework intensity was measured in metabolic equivalent of task (METs). These are roughly equivalent to the amount of energy (calories) expended per minute of physical activity. Light housework was assigned a MET of 2.5; heavy housework was assigned a MET of 4.

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Only around a third (36%; 90) of those in the younger group and only around half (48%;116) of those in the older age group, met the recommended physical activity quota from recreational physical activity alone.

But nearly two thirds (61%,152 younger; and 66%,159 older) met this target exclusively through housework.

After adjusting for other types of regular physical activity, the results showed that housework was associated with sharper mental abilities and better physical capacity. But only among the older age group.

Cognitive scores were 8% and 5% higher, respectively, in those doing high volumes of light or heavy housework compared with those in the low volume groups.

And the intensity of housework was associated with specific cognitive domains. Specifically, heavy housework was associated with a 14% higher attention score while light housework was associated with 12% and 8% higher short and delayed memory scores, respectively.

Similarly, sit-to-stand time and balance/coordination scores were 8% and 23% faster, respectively, in the high volume group than they were in the low volume group.

Those in the younger age group had five more years of education on average than their older counterparts. And since education level is positively associated with baseline mental agility and slower cognitive decline, this might explain the observed differences in the impact of housework between the two age groups, explain the researchers.

This is an observational study, and as such, can’t establish cause, they caution, adding that the study relied on subjective reporting of physical activity levels and the volume and intensity of household chores.

But they point to previous research indicating a link between aerobic exercise and improved cognitive function, so the sharper mental agility associated with housework might occur through similar mechanisms, they suggest.

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Mental ill-health is the leading cause of disability and poor life outcomes in young people aged 10–24 years, contributing up to 45% of the overall burden of disease in this age-group. Yet globally, young people have the worst access to youth mental health care within the lifespan and across all the stages of illness (particularly during the early stages).

In response, the Forum has launched a global dialogue series to discuss the ideas, tools and architecture in which public and private stakeholders can build an ecosystem for health promotion and disease management on mental health.

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And they conclude: “These results collectively suggest that the higher cognitive, physical and sensorimotor functions related to heavy housework activities might plausibly be associated with lower physiological fall risk among community-dwelling older adults.”

They add: “Incorporating [physical activity] into daily lifestyle through domestic duties (ie, housework) has the potential to achieve higher [physical activity], which is positively associated with functional health, especially among older community-dwelling adults.”

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Why chores are important for kids, reframing chores as personal responsibilities helps kids learn vital skills..

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We all remember them.

Some were associated with allowance, others were simply mandatory. For many kids, they were often an intrusion on other more important things we could have been doing.

As a parent, I’m sure you’ve asked (hopefully without screaming), “Did you take out the trash and clean your room?” In response, you may have received the perfunctory eye roll.

You know what I mean : They’re jobs at home that most of us hated but did out of necessity, because we were told to. And our kids pretty much hate them, too.

Reframing Chores as Responsibilities

It turns out chores have an incredibly important role for the developing child or teen. This is best understood, and far more acceptable to children, if they are reframed as responsibilities – as skills that have a great payoff.

Responsibilities can make children and adolescents feel special.

We should think of and present responsibilities to our kids in two major arenas – taking responsibility for the care of others (your social responsibility) and taking responsibility for the care of yourself.

Let’s start with some principles. All children have the desire to be competent, effective, and to master tasks they previously could not accomplish. The acquisition and demonstration of new skills help foster positive self-esteem . When they succeed in mastering more responsibilities, they not only feel that they can do what adults or older siblings do, but earn respect and validation for their competence.

In short, tackling responsibilities helps kids feel that they are growing up. They are fulfilling an intrinsic desire and drive to become independent, autonomous individuals. In addition, they enjoy the pleasure and great satisfaction in taking care of themselves and others.

What Parents Can Do to Foster Helping Others

It’s important for parents to reframe “chores” or “jobs” as responsibilities and to talk with kids about these as skills they can learn, perfect, and use in everyday life.

Our brains are wired to give. Acts of giving to others release neurochemicals that are far more powerful and rewarding than receiving gifts.

Here are some examples of ways to help others.

Pre-school Kids

Pre-school kids are just learning the basics of taking care of themselves, such as dressing themselves, feeding themselves, going to the bathroom on their own, or putting themselves to sleep. They are not capable of complex responsibilities, so parents need to keep things simple. Responsibilities for preschoolers can include:

  • Feed the dog or cat or fill up their water bowl.
  • Help set the table.
  • Assist in cleaning up after dinner – even carrying their plates to mom or dad to put in the dishwasher.
  • Help feed a younger toddler or give them a toy in the high chair if they are getting fussy.

When preschoolers handle these household responsibilities, they really appreciate the praise parents and older siblings bestow upon them.

Additionally, there are things they can do on special occasions, such as making decorations for Mothers’ Day or putting the candles in a family member’s birthday cake. They may also help clean up the house before guests are coming.

School-age Kids

There are many more things school-age kids can do to build positive self-esteem. Responsibilities for this group can include:

  • Setting the table.
  • Clearing the dishes after a family meal.
  • Taking out the garbage or putting recyclables in bins.
  • Helping to cook meals.
  • Taking the dog for a walk.
  • Picking up the newspaper.
  • Finding a good family movie to watch for an evening activity.

Again, doing things for others alone makes kids feel special. Sure, they would prefer to watch TV or play a video game. There will naturally be pushback from time to time. But if the culture of the household is one that lavishes praise, validation, admiration, and gratitude , they will feel more motivated to pitch in and contribute.

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Some parents may balk at giving praise over and over for what a child should be expected to do. This is a valid point. However, the amount of love, approval, and praise for contributions will never be endless. There will come a time that the ongoing responsibilities the child assumes on a routine basis becomes a foundation for their identity as mature and responsible individuals.

Teens have many more capabilities than younger kids. They can:

  • Cook meals on their own.
  • Pick siblings up from school and activities or run errands for parents.
  • Shop for the household.

They, like their younger siblings, will build positive self-esteem the more they can do and the more they are trusted. And, they, too, will push back on many responsibilities – they also know that they have their own personal lives with their friends; it’s much more fun to hang out with them than babysit or make dinner.

Yet parents can reward them with increased freedom. In my own clinical work, often to the eye rolls of teenagers, I say that there was a philosopher named John Stuart Mill who said (eye roll begins), "Increased responsibility brings increased freedom.” In other words, if you do what you are supposed to do, such as household chores, going to school, and working hard, you should get more freedom. These rewards can include a later curfew, more money to spend on things you want, and fewer restrictions on bedtime or screen time .

One final comment: Kids feel special when they are given a unique age-appropriate responsibility for a special occasion, such as a birthday, wedding, or holiday. And at times of great sadness, such as the loss of a pet, or serious illness in the family, they will feel special by helping in a time of hardship.

What Parents Can Do to Promote Kids Helping Themselves: Allowing Time for Social-emotional Learning

There is a critical balance between giving a child responsibilities at home, in school, and in the community, and allowing them time to be a kid.

Children do feel special when they asume responsibilities. However, they also require time to play, learn social skills, pursue hobbies and interests on their own, and enjoy themselves when they are alone.

It turns out that giving them the time to just be a kid, is, in fact, giving them enormous responsibility in learning the skills required of healthy, resilient adults.

Of course, playing, socially interacting, and engaging in hobbies will vary from child to child and from one developmental level to another. But kids of all ages need time to develop knowledge, attitudes, and skills that go beyond responsibilities at home, in school, and in the community.

Being able to play, interact with others, and follow one’s passions fosters the development of personal identity and the belief that they can be competent individuals with their own unique attributes. The capability of learning who I am, what I like to do, and how I like to do it requires interacting with peers in a variety of settings and achieving personal goals – in the arts, sports, writing, playing video games. In short, this process helps them learn to be responsible for themselves socially, emotionally, and recreationally.

Social-emotional learning is key for helping them become responsible moral agents in society. Time alone and with peers is critical for learning the skills of leadership , inclusion, acceptance of others, self-awareness, conflict resolution, and taking responsibility for their actions, including making apologies when they make mistakes, break a rule, or hurt someone’s feelings.

Enjoying themselves when alone and using that time to relax or to learn new skills, such as practicing an instrument, writing, or absorbing a good book are skills that are learned and not innate.

It’s a marathon, not a sprint.

All of this sounds good, but you know that putting these suggestions into action will not be easy. When kids hear us say, “I know you may not like or understand this, but it’s really going to help you in the long run,” once again, we get the eye roll.

But though there will inevitably be resistance if not outright opposition, it’s the right thing to do, and an effort worth starting when kids are very young.

Originally posted at the MGH Clay Center for Young Healthy Minds .

Eugene Beresin M.D., M.A.

Eugene Beresin, M.D. , is a professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School.

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Researcher Studies the Importance of Chores (and How to Get Kids to Do Them)

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Lucia Alcalá grew up in a small town in southern Mexico, where it was normal for children to substantially help with household work. She saw a different picture when she migrated to California at the age of 14, not knowing then that it would become the foundation of her research.

Now an assistant professor of psychology at Cal State Fullerton and a mother of three, Alcalá studies parenting and child development across diverse communities. Her recent work focuses on how Maya children from Yucatan, Mexico, learn to help as they participate in family and community activities.

Engaging Children Early On

“When I asked Maya mothers at what age can children help, they responded, ‘As soon as they can sit or walk,'” said Alcalá, explaining that babies learn by simply observing chores. “Other mothers reported that as soon as a child can walk, he or she can help by picking up toys or clothes.”

What’s really interesting, says Alcalá, is that most of the time indigenous parents do not ask children to do chores — children offer to help. “I know this might sound very strange to many of us struggling to get our teenagers to clean their rooms, but children in many indigenous communities contribute extensively to family work.

“By contrast, most middle-class Mexican and European-American parents in our studies reported that children do not help unless parents ask them to help or when there are consequences or privileges,” shared Alcalá. “Most children in these families will help with self-care chores, such as cleaning their rooms and picking up their own toys, but rarely contribute to chores that benefit the family, such as doing the laundry, cooking or washing the dishes.”

Alcalá believes the key is including toddlers in household work from an early age. “Toddlers around the world are eager to help and want to work with others. However, parents often limit toddlers’ engagement in chores because they might make a mess and create more work for them. But it is through these ‘mistakes and messes’ that toddlers will learn that they can contribute to their household and that their help is acknowledged.”

For older children and adolescents, Alcalá recommends helping them develop ownership of and competence in their chores.

“If we want our older children and adolescents to develop a sense of responsibility and to help at home, one thing that doesn’t help is to use chores as a form of punishment,” she explained. “Instead, we can invite our children to contribute to the household and to develop ownership of their work — while guiding them in becoming competent at their tasks and showing them how their work benefits the family.”

The Benefits of Household Work

So why is it even important to do chores? Executive function skills (working memory, cognitive flexibility, inhibition), collaboration, attention and school-readiness are a few reasons, says Alcalá.

“There are many benefits of helping at home, such as learning by observing, developing new skills, acquiring new information, and learning to be a contributing member of the group. Helping at home can also serve as the template for children to become competent and responsible community members.

“Additionally, when children and their contributions are valued, they are more likely to develop a sense of responsibility and a sense of self-efficacy and self-worth,” she continued. “Children who take the initiative to help at home are more likely to show a sophisticated, fluid collaboration when they work in school-like tasks, and are more likely to recognize when someone needs help and to help without being asked.”

Expanding Child Development Research

Alcalá envisions her work to be part of a new line of research that centers on the marginalized voices and experiences of children of color. The Spencer Foundation recently awarded her a nearly $50,000 grant to expand research in this area.

“One of the main goals of this grant is to develop new executive function tests that can be used reliably with multiple, diverse samples,” said Alcalá. “Often when we use pre-existing tests that were developed based on research with middle-class, European-American children, we miss a lot of the skills and abilities that children in other communities might have developed based on their daily experiences.

“What I have learned through my personal experiences as a mother of three children, and my research experiences with mothers across diverse communities, is that there is no ‘one-best’ way to parent your children,” she added. “On the contrary, there are many approaches to studying children’s development if we take the time to challenge the underlying assumptions of the current theories.”

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The benefits of kids doing chores.

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The entire family can benefit from kids helping out around the house.

Even though they might complain occasionally, most children are happy and capable of helping out around the house. Establishing a chore routine and assigning chores starting at an early age will be beneficial to both parents and children. Michigan State University Extension suggests children do chores to gain a number of benefits.

Kids get more out of chores than you might think

Children who help out around the house with family chores will grow as a person. Confidence and self-efficacy can improve as your child learns and uses their abilities to achieve a chore goal. Additionally, children can learn to feel pride in their work when they are reminded that their chores help everyone in the family. Work around the house and tackling new chores also teaches children life-skills that will help them stay on task and be productive for the rest of their lives.

When children take part of the family chore load, there are benefits for everyone. If chores are divided evenly, there will be more time for parents and children to spend time together once everyone’s tasks are completed. Structure and routine can also help parents build their child’s self-control and, in turn, reduces power struggles with parents. Children will begin feeling more successful and confident as they master new chores, and everyone will feel proud of the work that’s done.

The University of Arkansas System created an age appropriate chore chart for children ages 2 to early teenage years. This has good examples of chores that can help inform your choices when assigning chores to your kids.

Age appropriate chore ideas:

  • 2- to 3-year-olds can put toys away, dress themselves and help put clean dishes away by sorting silverware.  
  • 4- to 5-year-olds can help feed pets, make their beds (maybe not perfectly) and help clear the table after dinner.
  • 6- to 7-year-olds can wipe tables and counters, put laundry away and vacuum floors.
  • 7- to 9-year-olds can load and unload the dishwasher, help prepare meals and make their own lunch.
  • 10- to 11-year-olds can change their bedding, clean kitchen or bathrooms and mow the lawn.
  • Children aged 12 and above can wash the car, babysit younger siblings and help shop for groceries with a list.

It's important to keep a few things in mind when assigning chores to your kids. First and foremost, keep chores age and developmentally appropriate and be specific with instructions when working with younger children. Consistency and patience helps children take on new chore responsibilities, so stick with the family plan!

Chores benefit children and parents alike. They are an important way for you to help children feel like they are contributing members of the family household. This, in turn, helps them to learn a sense of belonging and the value of being a contributing member of a group. This value can grow as they do. So, whether through a school project, neighborhood cleanup, showing up to soccer practice on time, or serving lunch at the local soup kitchen, all of us benefit from children taking part in chores. 

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20 Developmental Benefits of Household Chores

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“Peter, you’re in charge of dusting. Scott, you need to vacuum the rooms upstairs and downstairs, make sure to do the stairs – everyone of them – and the hallway. Greg, feed the pigs and collect the chicken eggs. Ben, clean up the dog poop and mow the law. After you are done with that, I need you all to weed the strawberries and then stack all the hay bales in the barn. Oh, and do the dishes, clean your rooms, brush your teeth and make sure your homework is done.”

This was the weekend list of chores that Mom would delegate to myself and my three younger brothers. We lived on a farm so there was always work to do. At the time, I hated doing chores but looking back, I’m glad she made us do the work. The long term benefits have been invaluable. Little did my mom realize, by assigning chores to her sons she was helping us develop essential skills of functional independence.

As a parent, we have an obligation to help our children develop mentally, emotionally and physically. Household chores are an excellent opportunity to do so! Here are 20 benefits to involving your child with chores around the house:

20 Benefits of Involving Children in Household Chores:

  • Development of organizational, sequencing and executive functions
  • Practice and development of delayed gratification
  • Improved understanding of following instructions and ordinal processes
  • Fine and gross motor skills are developed and refined
  • Development of a variety of ADL (acts-of-daily-living) skills
  • Vocational skills are established and developed
  • Improved healthy self esteem & confidence
  • Provides children with “successes” that they can build upon
  • Development of independence
  • Reinforces the importance of routine and structure
  • Develops the concept of first work, then play
  • Results in a stronger work ethic
  • Provides opportunities for language development that is essential to early academic success including basic spatial, temporal and quantitative concepts
  • Helps build children’s self monitoring and evaluative skills
  • Prepares children to complete more complex tasks
  • Enables children to develop various aspects of teamwork and sense of belonging
  • Establishes a sense of ownership
  • Development of sense of responsibility
  • Improves critical thinking/problem solving skills
  • Helps increase task tolerance and attention

Age Appropriate Chores

How should we go about assigning tasks to our children? The chore that we ask our children to complete should match their age and or abilities. As we grow and develop, our jobs grow in complexity, duration and skill level. The following are suggested activities to help your children succeed and benefit from helping around the house:

2-3 Years Old

  • Dust a room
  • Pick up toys
  • Put dirty laundry in the hamper
  • Fold rags or dish cloths
  • Put away forks and spoons
  • Put garbage in the trash can

4-6 Years Old

  • Feed and clean up after pet
  • Set the table
  • Clear the table
  • Make their bed
  • Empty small trash cans
  • Sweep with a small broom
  • Put away groceries
  • And all previous chores listed

7-11 Years Old

  • Clean bathroom, including toilet
  • Clean the care
  • Task the trash bins to the curb
  • Wash the windows or mirrors
  • Organize toys and books
  • Retrieve the mail
  • Weed the garden
  • Fold laundry

12+ Years Old

  • Wash, dry, iron and fold laundry
  • Clean the dishes
  • Cook simple meals
  • Wash the car
  • Babysit siblings

I do. We do. You do.

Every family is different and some chores may be more appropriate depending on the child’s skills and situation. A simple, yet effective strategy for teaching a child a chore, is the “I do, we do, you do” approach. First demonstrate how to do the chore; second, do the chore with the child; and then finally have the child perform the chore on their own. You can scaffold this approach up or down as appropriate.

As you involve your child in chores around the house there will inevitably be some resistance, grumbling and possibly even some tantrums. Not to worry. Keep in mind your child’s skills and age as you assign tasks to ensure that you are assigning appropriate chores that they can fulfill. Over time their skills and ability to perform tasks will improve as you continue to involve them and one day in the future, they will thank you for it. 🙂

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Household Chores May Be Secret to Living Longer

Study finds they’re just as effective as going to the gym.

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Does just thinking about stepping inside a gym make you feel exhausted? If so, here’s some good news. One of the world’s largest studies on physical activity has found that doing household chores can be just as effective as running or working out when it comes to cutting your risk of heart disease and extending your life.

A team of researchers followed 130,000 people in 17 countries, of various income levels, from 2003 to 2010, and discovered that they enjoyed the same health benefits whether they were going to the gym, walking to work or doing household chores . Indeed, performing 30 minutes of any kind of physical activity five days a week could slash your risk of death from any cause by 28 percent and your rate of heart disease by 20 percent.

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And, again, the positive effects were the same whether someone was working out, walking or doing chores such as vacuuming, scrubbing the floor or gardening.

“Walking for as little as 30 minutes most days of the week has a substantial benefit, and higher physical activity is associated with even lower risks,” lead researcher Scott Lear said about the findings, published Friday in The Lancet medical journal .

“By including low and middle-income countries in this study, we were able to determine the benefit of activities such as active commuting, having an active job or even doing housework,” Lear said. He noted that 1 in 4 people worldwide do not get 30 minutes of exercise a day, five times a week.

Interestingly enough, the Canadian study found no ceiling on the benefits of exercise and “no risks associated with extremely high levels of physical activity,” defined as more than 2,500 minutes, or more than 41 hours, per week. Lear said that those who spent more than 750 minutes walking briskly each week lowered their risk of premature death by 36 percent.

Previous studies have underscored the importance of regular physical activity. For example, a study of 1,500 older women published earlier this year found that those who got less than 40 minutes of exercise each day and reported more than 10 hours of daily, sedentary behavior had cells that were eight biological years older than those of their more active contemporaries.

In addition to being physically harmful, too much sitting also might be damaging your brain. Researchers say that the more you move your body, the more alert your brain becomes.

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The Importance of Chores

In this article, you will find:, why chores are important.

  • Chores can teach & chores can earn

Here's the reality, and American society's dirty little secret-many kids don't learn how to wash their clothes, cook a meal, mow a lawn, make a bed, or even effectively wash a dish until they've moved out of the house. (In other words, you're not the only one with a demanding slug for a child!) Yet, most people agree that kids do benefit from having a role in the daily operations of the family.

Figuring out the right amount of responsibility is a balancing act. Kids work very hard. Between schoolwork, learning to deal with social situations, and, for many kids, their many extracurricular involvements, kids have very little “down” time. They need a chance to play, relax, daydream, nap. At the same time, teaching children life skills (and I'm talking kids of both sexes here, by the way) has a number of benefits:

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Think about the benefits of family responsibilities as more than just learning survival skills. It's the participation that matters. Participating in family responsibilities helps a child develop essential social skills.

  • A person who enters college, or an independent living situation, with life skills will have a far easier time living with roommates.
  • Family responsibilities teach basic discipline.
  • The skills learned from having family responsibilities include time management, prioritizing tasks, and general organizational abilities.
  • With family participation, the parents don't have to slave their life away serving the royal offspring.
  • Most importantly, the child understands that he is part of a community (your family) and that as a member of the community, he needs to share responsibilities to keep the community going.

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When it comes to taking care of the household , one person is just not enough. Family life is not only about supporting each other emotionally, a division of work does also impact the relationship between parents and their children. Especially if they know, everyone works as a team .

Setting the table, emptying the dishwasher, folding clothes from the day before – just little tasks throughout the day. Looking at them separately, they are all quickly finished while summing up the time needed for each steals us a lot of free time. Especially when we are busy all day long: preparing breakfast for the morning, getting ready for work, parents bringing the children to kindergarten and school, work. After-work hours do not contain a lot of relaxing when there are all the chores we need to do, without any family members helping out.

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There are lots of stressor we face during the day. Home should be the place where we should take time for ourselves and leave all the duties of the day behind us. It sounds like a peaceful place: changing into the jogging pants, warm and comfortable moments on the couch, a nice dinner and a long bath.

“Home is a place blessed, where you and your family can be secure, have all you need, and share your sadness and happiness. Where you can help each other as a family. It does not matter how big or small.” – Honey

Helping each other as a family also means dividing the work to make sure home stays the place to feel comfortable. The work cannot be done by one single person, that is why it is important to include children in household work. Here are 9 benefits of sharing chores with your children:

1. There is work for every age group

The list of chores that need to be done in the household is long. It can also vary depending on the age of the children in your household as well as the cirumstances, e.g. if you have guests over for a dinner night, you will need more time in the kitchen to prepare the food. Even though children of different age groups all have different skills, everyone can take part of the household. For toddlers, for example, it starts with putting away the toys they have just played with to teach them to clean up after themselves. School kids have more capabilities of helping out at home. They can assist in preparing meals, setting the table and bringing the garbage to the bins. Teenagers can take even more responsibilities and might help to clean the house, cook light meals and empty the dishwasher. Annie Stuart created a list of chores she recommends for different age groups. Have a look on what she suggests!

2. Children learn how to take responsibilities

Oftentimes, parents believe that it is still too early to involve their children in chores because they are just children and need to enjoy being young as long as they possibly can. But children will be urged to take responsibilities in different stages of their lives: in kindergarten they will have to clean up after themselves, in school they will have to do their homework and work in groups with their class mates, at some point they will move out and do everything on their own. Step by step parents can assist their children in managing these responsibilities by teaching them how to do things at home. Chores are often one of the first responsibilities children have, they are a great way of developing skills for the future.

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3. Children learn realistic work from a young age on

Giving children the feeling of life being too easy only works as long as they live with their parents. Young adults move out quicker than most parents wish. If children never did anything in the household, it is a challenge to take care of oneself and it can be frustrating for the grown-up to learn all these skills. Involving your child from a young age on gives them a feeling of how much work there is in a household. More important, assigning them specific chores within their childhood shows children the reality of work within their home. Growing up in a world without responsibilities only works as long as children live with their parents. At some point they will end up taking care of themselves.

4. It gives them a feeling of being competent and responsible

With every responsibility a child has either in school groups or helping out in the household, it learns how to handle little challenges that will come up regularly. “Chores teach children how to do tasks that they will need throughout their lives — like doing laundry and the dishes. And they teach skills that will benefit them in the classroom and on the sports field, such as how to work together and be a part of a team,” clinical psychologist Caroline Mendel tells author Christina Frank for the Child Mind Institute . Starting with small responsibilities like doing their own bed or setting the table for dinner shows the child that his or her help is necessary for the household to be organised.

5. Children are challenged and feel like they achieved something when finishing their chores

Parents often struggle with their children not wanting to do their chores. Therefore they look for expert advises on how to motivate their child. One major issue is that many children see household tasks like tidying up their room, making their bed, emptying the dishwasher and bringing their dirty laundry down to the laundry basket as duties and obligations. For them, there is always the option: chores or something fun. Who would not decide for something that cheers them up? Instead of forbidding the exciting parts, many advices are to set certain time limits until when the chores should be done without any consequences. But even if the child did his or her task for the day, it should be appreciated by the parents as well to give their child the feeling of achieving something positive. Praising the child gives them a boost in self-confidence, which connects the ‘annoying’ work with a positive feeling they strive for in the future. Researchers of a study in the United States have found a positive effect of frequent chores for elementary school children on their life satisfaction as well as self-competence.

6. It can improve the children’s mental health

The following Kids at home report illustrates how chores can be therapeutic, also for children. It is not only about keeping the children busy. Pediatric Dr. Anna Groebe explains the impact of household chores on children’s mental health:

7. It makes family life easier because divided work reduces stress

According to therapist Jody Baumstein household tasks should be divided among family members, including children. “If only one or two members of the family are doing all the chores, it can lead to feeling overwhelmed and possibly frustrated with others. By splitting up chores, you’re sharing responsibility amongst the family, which means that everyone can have more time for fun and connection.” Taking care of keeping the home clean together leads to less fights and less stressed parents.

8. Shared work improves family relationships because every family member is part of the team

Chores are often associated with lonely boredom. Actually, they should be more fun because dividing tasks also means developing skills of working in a team . Thinking about sports, who does not enjoy playing soccer more while being outside with the best friends, kicking the ball around rather than kicking it all alone in the garden at home? Therefore it is important to show your children that they are not the only one’s who are doing work they might not enjoy. Every member of the family has their tasks they take care of. If one member does not do their part, the target will never be reached. A good advice of team management is speaking about the chores all together and creating a list of which chores everyone has to do for the following week. It also gives the child the opportunity to pick their favorite work rather than doing something he or she does not like.

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9. Children learn to appreciate the work their parents do at home

When children know how much time it costs to do household tasks, they are more likely to appreciate the times their parents do everything themselves. And they might suggest some chores they would take care of. Especially because home is the place for the whole family, so everyone should take part in keeping it tidied up. In order to ensure children understand the value of their work, it is important to communicate clearly, assign them age-appropriate chores but also recognize the work they do. Some parents reward their children by paying them for the work they do. Joanna Fortune , child psychotherapist, supports this method but still finds: some chores must be done without involving money. Just for the learning effect.

To make household work more entertaining for your toddlers, here is a song to keep them in motion when cleaning up their toys. It is often used in pre-schools and gives children the sign: it’s clean-up time.

Motivation is the key for chores because it makes the work feel lighter and even a little fun. Teenagers do not tend to enjoy children’s songs that much. Here is a playlist to entertain the one’s who do not find their motivation for household work easily:

Involving children in household chores is beneficial for parents, since they aren’t buried under a pile of work but also for children because they learn important skills such as independency, autonomy, time management and experience little successes with every task they finish. It is not an obligation but little responsibilities can prepare children for their future as a grown-up and give them a feeling of knowing how to take care of themselves. But the most important is to keep in mind that it is not only the parents’ job to manage the household, there is a task for every member of the family.

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Why It’s Important to Do Household Chores as a Family

Feb 1, 2018

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This post was sponsored by Homey.    I received this product for free, in return for an honest review.  All opinions are my own and I was not required to post a positive review of the product.  

One of my biggest reasons for homeschooling is to be able to instill responsibility in my kids on a daily basis.  I want my kids to see my husband and I working together.  I want them to be a part of a hard-working family unit.

From a very young age, I was raised learning about responsibility and work ethic.  My parents owned and operated a family business and each of us carried our own weight, even as young kids.

Working together as a family is one of my most fond memories.

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Why Is it Important to Do Household Chores as a Family?

When parents model hard work, children see it in action and replicate it.  .

Barking at your kids to do chores while you sit on the couch on Facebook will teach your kids nothing.  Kids are not our maids or our servants, but rather our apprentices.  Using the “better than” approach will only make household chores more of a struggle.

On the other hand, if you model that working hard is a part of life, and that even YOU do it, they will be more likely to jump in.  When parents jump in and enthusiastically work WITH their children, power struggles become almost non-existent.

When everyone chips in, it takes less time and is less overwhelming.

This is something that I stress to my kids when they are reluctant to help out.  The more everyone helps out, the less time it takes, which means MORE play time for everyone!

But, if I am the one who is left to do the chore, it is going to take a lot of time, and therefore will take me away from fun things they want me to be a part of.

When parents chip in and help complete chores, it takes the overwhelm factor away for the child.

For example,  telling my daughter to go clean her bathroom seems like a very intimidating task for a 6-year-old.   Even though we might see it as age appropriate, it can still feel huge to a child.

That feeling of overwhelm can lead to resistance.  It is not because the child is WANTING to be defiant, but because they feel like there is no way they can complete it on their own and don’t have the ability to properly communicate their feeling.

That’s frustrating!

Why not set them up for success?  It doesn’t mean YOU clean the bathroom.  It means you assist, tell your child how hard they are working (don’t make a bunch of corrections) and simply INSTILL a strong work ethic.

Everyone wins!

Completing chores as a family teaches kids how to work together.  

Everyone is not ALWAYS going to be super pumped to clean toilets and fold laundry.  But, if the family unit is setting a goal to complete household responsibilities, there will be a sense of camaraderie.

Siblings will learn how to work together to get their tasks done.  They will learn how to encourage each other, while also be held accountable for their chores.

Doing chores can be turned into a way to have fun as a family.

Chores have gotten a bad rap.  Most kids hate them.  Parents dread enforcing them.

Around and around goes the chore merry-go-round. Eventually, you might just throw your hands up and do the darn chores yourself.

But, don’t!

If you can turn chores into something FUN, they might not be despised so much.

How   can you make chores fun?

Here are some ways that I have seen work for younger AND older kids:

  • Race against the clock .  Time yourselves completing the chore as a family.  Then try to beat the time in the future.
  • Create teams and race.   This includes mom and dad.  Each team can take a similar chore (or the same one if there are multiple areas, like bathrooms to be cleaned) and race to see who finishes first.
  • Have a chore dance party.   Blare some favorite music and get down to cleaning.  Dancing and being silly always seem to lighten the mood!
  • Come up with a family reward.   If all of the chores get done as a family, what can you do to celebrate?  Maybe ice cream and a movie or a trip to the park right afterward.  The options are endless.
  • Use technology.   The Homey App is a fun and fabulous way for families to organize and track chores and responsibilities.  Not only does it track everyone’s tasks, but there are other fun options like “savings jars” and taking pictures of the completed chore.  

More About the Homey App

I was so excited when I found out about the Homey App.  

Having a chore app on a screen adds a certain amount of fun to getting stuff DONE! Not to mention the silly selfies my daughter gets to take to take to show she has completed a chore.

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I am a huge fan of teaching kids about responsibility and getting paid for hard work, so this app fits right in with our family vision.  The Homey App has everything you need for household chores, right at the tips of your fingers. 

Overview of the Homey App:

The Homey App is a chore, reward and allowance app that links your family together in one place, to track household chores.  

Not only does the Homey App have a log in for each family member to track their own chores, it also allows for parents to set and PAY allowances/commissions to each family member.  Parents can link their bank account to their child’s account to pay when chores have been completed.  

In order to verify your child’s chore has been done, they can also snap a quick picture to be sent to you.  

Homey chore app

Using the Homey App:

The Homey App has a user-friendly dashboard that allows you to log in and add your family members.  Each family member does NOT have to have their own device, as you can just create separate accounts and passwords within the app.  

This makes it easy for even the youngest of family members to use mom or dad’s phone to log in and do their chores.  This is awesome for teaching independence!   

There are several chores and responsibilities that can be used on the app for free, and you can also buy more chores to add to your household.  

Some of the responsibilities include:  brushing teeth, getting dressed, cleaning faucets, changing hand towels, and pretty much anything you can imagine in the world of household work.

Homey chore app

Within the app, RESPONSIBILITIES (i.e. brushing teeth, getting dressed) are not paid, but can be used toward weekly allowance and JOBS (i.e. cleaning toilet, changing out hand towel) are paid chores.  

One feature that I thought was really fun was the option to set up a “savings jar”.  If your child has something they really want to purchase, save for or donate to, they can create a “savings jar”, name it and then a percentage of their earnings go into the jar for their desired goal.  This is an amazing tool for teaching about monetary goals and hard work.  

If you need reminders for chores and responsibilities, the Homey App can be set to give reminders on your smartphone—perfect for the busy family that runs in a million different directions on any given day!  

Download the FREE  Homey App trial today (link up to 3 accounts on the FREE trial!) and add some fun to those pesky chores!  

Why I Love the Homey App:

The Homey App is so much more than a chore-tracking tool.  It is a really fun way to teach kids how to be responsible and money savvy. 

The settings make it flexible enough for families with young children, as well as adolescent children. 

Heck, even dad needs a reminder to take out the trash sometimes! 

Parents can easily implement and track chores and families can reach their goals together.  

Even when you are busy and on the go, you can still make sure your house stays under control and your kids are learning how to be responsible!  

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Working together, as a family, is vital for kids to become responsible and accountable.

Responsible kids make their way into the adult world seamlessly compared to those who struggle with accountability.

Whether you’re having a dance off, singing into the handle of the broom, or racing to see whose toilet gets cleaned first, give family chores a try and see how it changes things!

How do you teach responsibility in your household?  Drop me a line in the comments!  

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The Importance of Chores

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Like most adults, I had chores growing up: mowing the lawn, doing the dishes, cleaning the bathroom, and the like. And it seems like a no-brainer that parents today would continue to assign their children chores. Why wouldn’t they? It’s free labor!

Alas, in many families, chores have gone the way of VHS and land-line telephones: Once ubiquitous, they’re now quite rare. While more than 80% of US adults had regular chores growing up, less than 30% are now assigning regular chores to their children. 1 This is troubling because “Decades of studies show the benefits of chores—academically, emotionally and even professionally.” 1

The Benefits of Chores

First, I should acknowledge that having children do chores does not always save parents time or make parents’ lives easier, and this is especially true for young children. But the only way for children to become effective and efficient at helping out around the house is to let them start as beginners and give them opportunities to practice. And that’s also the only way for them to gain the more important benefits of doing chores.

“I must admit, getting my children to do chores is a labor-intensive activity. It would be much easier to do them myself. And that would require no supervision, no frustration, no emotion… and definitely, it would be done much faster! But what would that teach my child?” – Sharon Harding 2

This is another classic case of balancing short-term and long-term goals . As children grow up, parents must constantly make choices about how much responsibility to give them and how much support to provide. Every step of the way, you can get a better “product” – a cleaner bathroom, a neater yard, a tidier house – if you do everything yourself, but in doing so you’ll be losing the chance to have your children develop greater “production capacity” – their ability to do good work in the future. 3

So, aside from developing the capacity to effectively do housework, how do children and teenagers benefit from chores?

First and foremost, chores teach you how to work . Having regular chores makes it normal to do things that you don’t want to do, and success in both school and life depend on your ability to do the necessary work, even when you don’t feel like it. If schoolwork is the only time children are made to do work they don’t want to do, they might come to see school as a uniquely awful form of torture – a cruel punishment designed by adults to make children suffer. But if doing work that you don’t want to do is just a normal part of life, then school won’t seem as bad. Homework is just another chore.

There are many parallels between schoolwork and chores. You take out the garbage when it’s full because, if you don’t, there will be immediate negative consequence. Likewise, you turn in your homework when it’s due because, if you don’t, it will immediately impact your grade. You dust and vacuum from time to time to keep your living space clean and healthy. Likewise, you review old concepts from time to time to keep them fresh in your mind. You tidy up your room as needed because living in chaos is tedious and draining. Likewise, you organize your backpack and binder as needed because constantly sifting through a mess of papers makes school harder than it needs to be. In short, you often you do schoolwork for the same reason you do chores: it benefits your future selves .

More than just the ability to work, a habit of chore-doing eventually teaches most children to be good workers. In her excellent TED Talk, “How to raise successful kids without overparenting,” Julie Lythcott-Haims points out that doing chores helps children develop “the instinct to roll up their sleeves and pitch in and look around and wonder, how can I be useful to my colleagues? How can I anticipate a few steps ahead to what my boss might need?” 4 At first, your “colleagues” are your siblings and friends, and your “boss” is a parent or some other adult, but later this attitude is incredibly useful in the workplace. I remember helping my dad with a household construction project, and having him point out that, instead of waiting to be asked, I could anticipate his need for a particular tool or see that something needed doing on my own. That lesson stuck with me and I’ve applied it at every job I’ve ever worked.

To drive this home, here’s Lythcott-Haims again:

“The longest longitudinal study of humans ever conducted is called the Harvard Grant Study. It found that professional success in life … comes from having done chores as a kid … [because it cultivates] a mindset that says, ‘There’s some unpleasant work, someone’s got to do it, it might as well be me,’ a mindset that says, ‘I will contribute my effort to the betterment of the whole.’” 4

Chores can also teach teamwork, problem solving skills, and a sense of pride in a job well done. 2 Most chores are also low-consequence tasks where making a mistake or failing completely won’t cause much harm, 2 so they’re a great opportunity to take risks and try things independently. 2

If you give children responsibilities, it makes them more response-able, 3 more capable of being helpful in any situation. Unsurprisingly, children who do chores become more helpful in general. 5 This will make them better guests in other people’s homes, better roommates in college, and better spouses.

Children and teens who do chores also become more grateful 5 as they increasingly recognize how much work other people do to make their lives good. Doing some hard work yourself makes you less likely to take someone else’s hard work for granted. They’ll be more likely to express gratitude toward teachers, coaches, custodians, landscapers, baristas, waiters, and *gasp* parents. Children and teens who do chores come to understand that they’re part of a community – your family – and that they have an interdependent role to play in that community.

Chores also help develop willpower and mental toughness because, as mom and blogger Alexia Dellner says, “Knowing that you can’t play with your friends or watch TV until you’ve done your chores teaches kids about discipline and self-control.” 6 Plus, knowing that they can take responsibility for a chore and get it done right creates a strong sense of self-efficacy. 7 This confidence spills over into academics, sports, jobs, and their social lives.

So, given all these benefits, why are fewer and fewer parents assigning regular chores to children and teens?

Why Are Chores in Decline?

The short answer is that students today are busier than ever. Their schedules are jam-packed, and much of this can be attributed to the fact that college entrance has become increasingly competitive. A 2015 Wall Street Journal article explains:

“Today’s demands for measurable childhood success—from the Common Core to college placement—have chased household chores from the to-do lists of many young people. … With students under pressure to learn Mandarin, run the chess club or get a varsity letter, chores have fallen victim to the imperatives of resume-building.” 1

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Speaking from the perspective of worried parents, Lythcott-Haims describes the modern student’s hectic lifestyles as “the checklisted childhood”:

“We keep them safe and sound and fed and watered, and then we want to be sure they go to the right schools, that they’re in the right classes at the right schools, and that they get the right grades in the right classes in the right schools. But not just … the grades and scores, but the accolades and the awards and the sports, the activities, the leadership. We tell our kids, don’t just join a club, start a club, because colleges want to see that. And check the box for community service. I mean, show the colleges you care about others. … It’s as if every piece of homework, every quiz, every activity is a make-or-break moment for this future we have in mind for them, and we absolve them of helping out around the house.” 4

Now, you might be thinking that many of the “resume-building” activities would confer benefits similar to those of chores, and you’d be right. Volunteering, running a club, working for the school newspaper, and even getting a part-time job are all ways to develop work-ethic, self-efficacy, and executive function. These are good things for students to do, but they’re all lacking something. They don’t teach children the importance of being a contributing member of the crew that maintains a household, and they probably don’t teach gratitude or helpfulness as effectively. For these benefits, nothing can replace chores.

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Another reason chores are in decline is the use of hired help. Families on the wealthier end of the spectrum often make the totally reasonable choice to spend money in order to save time, hiring landscapers to maintain the yard, maids to clean the house, and a dog-walker to take care of the family pet. There’s nothing wrong with this choice, but it does raise some questions about family priorities. Why are our schedules so packed that we don’t have time to maintain our own households? What does this say about our values? Is short-term convenience more important than long-term skill-building? Just because we can hire someone, does it mean we should?

I can’t answer those questions for you, but I do think they’re worth considering. Finding a healthy balance between household responsibilities, academics, extracurriculars, and play , while maintaining at least some downtime for rest and recovery is no easy task. There’s no perfect mix or one-size-fits-all solution, but we’ll all surely make better choices if we’re at least aware of the tradeoffs involved.

Tips for Successful Chore-Child Relationships

To get the most benefit out of having your children do chores, and to avoid the worst forms of resistance, consider these tips:

  • Schedule the chores and keep the schedule as consistent as possible. 1 Surprise labor is worse than expected labor, and the more regular something is the more automatic it feels.
  • Make sure some of the child’s chores benefit the whole family, not just the child. 1 Putting your son in charge of cleaning his room is good, but this labor is mostly about Make sure he also has chores like doing dishes, dusting the living room, or helping with yardwork because these benefit the whole family.
  • Take their input into account when assigning chores because, even if you don’t assign them exactly what they’ve asked for, they’ll have more “buy-in” because they got to participate in the process of choosing. 1
  • Don’t assign chores as punishments. 1 Remember, the goal is to instill a positive value of helping others.
  • Don’t tie chores to allowances. Paying children for good behavior sabotages any intrinsic motivation they might have been developing, “turning an altruistic act into a business transaction.” 1
  • Instead of taking away an allowance for neglected chores, simply remove some privilege that your child is accustomed to enjoying – a toy, a video game, a cell phone, the freedom to hang out with friends – until such time that the chores are completed.
  • Thank your child for “being a helper” rather than for “helping.” 1 People tend to respond well to positive attributions like this; they become more likely to live up to the good identity you’ve assigned them. 8

Stewardship

In his landmark book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People , Stephen Covey described the power of assigning a child “stewardship” over some aspect of the household. This means, for children of adequate age and ability, giving them the responsibility to maintain some subset of the household chores.

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In the example he used in the book, Covey gave his son stewardship over keeping the lawn healthy and trim. This entailed watering it when needed, pulling weeds, and mowing it regularly. After teaching him how to do all the tasks involved, Covey told his son that he’d be happy to help with the work and would provide any tools or materials he needed, but Covey also made it clear that help would not be volunteered – the boy had to ask . And Covey told his son that no one was going to remind him to maintain the lawn. Remembering to do the work was the boy’s responsibility. 3

At first, the program was a colossal failure: The boy neglected his work until he felt overwhelmed by the task and ashamed at the state of the lawn. Covey bit his tongue, ignored his neighbors’ disapproving looks, and waited. Eventually, the boy, tail between his legs, came to his father and asked for help. Covey happily helped him return the lawn to a presentable form and, because the boy had asked for help, gave him some coaching on how to do better in the future. Thereafter, the boy needed no help at all, and the lawn always looked fantastic. 3

Stewardship is where chores intersect with executive function . Having responsibility over some area of the household forces you to learn time management and organization. You have to self-motivate. You have to monitor your own progress and effectiveness. When you’re in charge of something, your brain has to figure how to be in charge of it.

Many children first encounter the concept of stewardship when they ask for a pet. “We can get a dog, but only if you promise to be in charge of taking it for walks, cleaning up after it, and making sure it has food and water,” parents often reply. Caring for a pet is an excellent chore, and a fun way to develop executive function.

Another good example is meal-preparation. An older child or teenager who would like to contribute can be given responsibility for planning and cooking one meal for the family each week. This entails many executive function skills: planning ahead, making sure you have the resources you need, collecting necessary information, asking for help when you need it, and managing your time so that the meal is ready when it’s supposed to be.

Parents can model having a positive attitude about chores, and this might help children feel better about them. You can demonstrate how to do chores without complaining, maybe even with a smile on your face. You can play music to make the job more enjoyable.

But I wouldn’t recommend faking it. If you pretend to enjoy chores that you really dislike, you run the risk of convincing your children that either A) Their parents are inhuman weirdos who love housework, or B) Normal people like doing housework, so it’s us kids who are weird and broken because we don’t enjoy it. Instead, consider using chores as an opportunity to be real with your kids.

Don’t pretend to love doing chores you hate. Don’t pretend you want to do them when you’d rather do something fun. Own those feelings. Make them public. And then demonstrate doing the work anyway. Don’t wallow or whine, but don’t shy away from being honest about your complete lack of desire to clean the garage. It’s important for your children to view you as human. Humans don’t like doing chores, but they do them anyway.

As always, lead by example , and don’t try to be perfect .

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2 Harding, Sharon. “14 Ways Chores Will Benefit Your Children.” Rediscovered Families: Parenting From The Heart. March 9, 2015.

3 Covey, Stephen R. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change. Fireside, 1990.

4 Lythcott-Haims, Julie. “How to raise successful kids without overparenting.” TED Talks Live. November 2015.

5 Darling, Nancy, Ph.D. “Chores Are Good for Kids: Chores teach kids something unexpected – gratitude.” Psychology Today . February 15, 2011.

6 Dellner, Alexia. “6 Reasons Why You Should Give Your Kids Chores.” PureWow. June 29, 2017.

7 Tiret, Holly and Rebecca Hodges. “The benefits of kids doing chores: The entire family can benefit from kids helping out around the house.” Michigan State University Extension. September 29, 2016.

8 Carnegie, Dale. How to Win Friends and Influence People: The Only Book You Need to Lead You to Success. Simon and Schuster, 1936. Share this:

The Way Couples Split Chores Can Improve Relationships, According to a New Study

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I s washing dishes harder than buying groceries? Does one load of laundry equal two takings-out of the garbage? Should people who clean bathrooms get a free pass from ever having to keep track of what bills need to be paid? These and other questions about the division of labor in the home have been marital fight-starters for years. A new study, however, finds that couples have been thinking about this all wrong. Dividing up tasks is good for factories. Sharing tasks is better for families.

In an analysis of nationally representative surveys from the 1990s and early 2000s that gathered information on family life and time use, University of Utah associate professor Daniel Carlson noticed some interesting trends. Couples who each took on specific chores and didn’t share any of them were not as satisfied with their relationship as couples who shared at least three chores. “The number of equally shared tasks matters a great deal for both men’s and women’s relationship quality,” writes Carlson in a Council for Contemporary Families research brief for the paper, which will later be published in the journal Sex Roles . “Indeed, among recent cohorts there is evidence to suggest that it matters as much if not more than each partner’s overall proportion of housework.”

This does not mean partners need to be doing a given chore at the same time; they can switch off. It’s the fact that both are doing the same sort of work that’s key. “One of the biggest predictors of satisfaction is a feeling of fairness in relationships,” says Carlson. “It turns out that the more tasks couple share together, that they do jointly, the greater their feelings of equity, the more satisfied they are with their housework arrangements.” Looking more closely at recent cohorts he noticed, the effects were amplified. “Those who were equally sharing all the tasks, 99% reported that their relationship was fair,” he says. “Those who had 50/50 housework, but they didn’t share any tasks together? Only half of them thought their relationship was fair.”

One of the reasons for this, he speculates, is that not all household tasks are created equal. “Some are more enjoyable than others. Some are more isolating than others,” says Carlson. “If I get to go through the grocery shopping, I get to go out of the house, I get to interact with people, potentially, as opposed to sitting on my knees, cleaning the toilet.” So even if the amount of time spent on housework is the same, or the number of tasks is the same, the labor involved might not be remotely similar. “I might get the three easy ones, the more fun ones, and you might get the three harder ones,” says Carlson. “So even though we’re kind of splitting it up on the surface, when it comes down to it, those tasks are not equivalent.”

Another reason why sharing tasks works better may be that doing things together fosters collaboration and a sense of togetherness, even if people are not actually doing the chores at the same time. “I could do the laundry on Tuesdays and Thursdays, you could do the laundry on Mondays and Wednesdays, but that requires coordination. That requires communication,” says Carlson. “Good high quality relationships are built on good communication between partners, a sense of togetherness and mutual decision making.” In some supplementary analyses which aren’t in the paper, Carlson found that couples who shared chores tended to have better communication skills. It’s unclear, however, which came first. Do happy couples share chores because they already know how to work together already or did their ability to collaborate become enhanced by figuring out together how best to stack the dishwasher?

Family scholars have long known that a perception of fairness is a big contributor to partners’ happiness. This partially explains why people in traditional marriages—in which there is one breadwinner and one home-maker—often report levels of satisfaction equal or greater to those in so-called egalitarian marriages where both partners pursue paid employment. In many traditional marriages, the partner (pretty much always the woman) who stays home and does the bulk of the housework and childcare understood or even welcomed the deal going into the marriage.

Meanwhile, in most egalitarian heterosexual marriages, the burden of housework and childcare still fall unequally on the female partner, a situation which hasn’t shifted very much in three decades. In families where both parents work outside the home , mothers do 13.5 hours of housework, while fathers do 9.5 hours. This asymmetry was amplified during the pandemic, when many women made the decision exit paid employment because of the increased demands on the home front. Many of the reasons for this were structural; women are usually the lower-earner partners, so it makes more sense for them to stay home. But as many researchers have pointed out, it’s a positive feedback loop: If women have to take on more of the domestic burden they are less able to compete for higher-paying jobs and promotions. And if they earn less, it only makes sense that they’re the ones who leave the workforce when things at home get hectic.

How strong is the effect of doing chores together? “If you’re a woman in an egalitarian relationship where you’re not sharing any tasks, then your level of satisfaction is as low as it is for women who are doing all of the housework,” says Carlson. “And if you’re a man who is sharing the majority of tasks with your partner then you’re just as happy in your relationship as a guy who doesn’t have any housework responsibilities.”

This last finding surprised Joanna Pepin, an assistant sociology professor at the University of Buffalo, New York, who was not involved in the study. “That was a little counterintuitive from what we’ve been assuming,” she says, which is that less housework for either party in an egalitarian partnership always means more happiness. But she says the result may well have to do with partners getting a clearer picture of what each other is doing and how much work it is. “If they’re sharing tasks rather than splitting them up, I can envision that it’s making visible all the invisible things that they may take for granted,” she says.

Pepin’s research examines why gender inequality within families is still robust despite gains in women’s earning power. “Women’s roles have changed so much and we are kind of trying to figure out what the incentive is for men to take up more of the labor at home,” she says. “This is a really smart approach to thinking about why we might be stuck in getting to more equality in relationships.”

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A Free Printable Chore Chart For Your Household

A s your children grow up, it is important that they get involved with the household chores. By becoming a helpful part of their home environment, they can do their part to help their family to operate like a finely tuned machine. Plus, they will learn a lot about jobs and responsibilities. Today, we present you with a free printable chore chart along with tips for how to help your kids to get involved and the importance of doing so.

The Importance of a Printable Chore Chart

While there are many important reasons to have your kids help with the chores (more on that later), it is also essential that you hold your kids accountable and that everyone shares the responsibilities. If you have a large family with multiple children, then everyone should contribute based on their age and abilities. 

A printable chore chart can help. Make one or several copies and then place them on the refrigerator, in the kid’s rooms, or in another community area of your home where everyone will see them. When they look at it, they will be able to instantly tell what chores they have left to do and which are already done. When they finish a chore, they can mark it off of the list. It is a feeling that can be incredibly rewarding and it may encourage your kids to do everything else they have on their list.

The particular printable chore chart below allows you to mark down who is responsible for tasks, such as cleaning the living room, hallways, garage, bathroom, outdoor patio and more. Plus, you have slots for washing the dishes and miscellaneous tasks like taking out the trash, vacuuming, and painting the fence outside. Print the chart below, put it into practice, and you will really see how clean your house can get.

Why Kids Should Have Assigned Chores

There are numerous reasons why parents should put their kids in charge of particular chores around the house. 

Chores Teach Life Skills

Your kids learn a lot of stuff in school, but they don’t always learn the life skills that can help them to thrive when they grow into adults. Children need to know how to wash and dry the dishes, clean their space, and take care of their belongings. By having them do at least minimal chores, they will learn some of these important life lessons.

Learn About Money and Budgeting

If your kids earn an allowance for completing their chores, then they can learn a lot about saving and budgeting their money. When your children want to buy something, like a video game or toy, you can tell them that they can earn the funds by doing their chores. Once they earn some money, you can also open a bank account for them so they can learn about putting their earnings in a good place so they can earn for a future purchase.

Understand Teamwork

By using a printable chore chart, you can also teach your kids about working as part of a team. When one of your kids washes the dishes, another dries them, and another puts them away, they will learn how they can work as one unit to accomplish a goal. The same can be said if your kids work together out in the yard, they help to clean a room, or anything else they take on.

Improve Time Management Skills

When your kids have chores in addition to school, homework, and time out with their friends, they will learn a lot about time management. This is especially true if you require that your kids complete their chores before they are allowed to go out. It can be incredibly beneficial for them to learn time management now because their lives will only get more complicated as they grow. Enact a good routine today and they will be set to go as they become adults.

Opportunities to Bond

If you have several of your kids working on similar projects, then they will have plenty of time to talk and bond. There is something about working towards a common goal that is great for helping your kids to connect. Parents can also choose to help the kids with their chores and talk to them and forge a stronger relationship. 

Chores For Your Kids Per Age

Parents that are scratching their heads thinking of chores for their kids to do are in luck. Below is a list of chores for different age groups:

Chores for Kids Ages 2-3

  • Put toys away
  • Put clothes in the hamper
  • Wipe up spills
  • Pile magazines and books

Chores for Kids Ages 4-5

  • Make their bed
  • Clear the table
  • Water the flowers
  • Help unload utensils from the dishwasher

Chores for Kids Ages 6-7

  • Help sort the laundry
  • Set and clear the table
  • Clean their bedroom
  • Help with yard work
  • Sweep the floors

Chores for Kids Ages 8-9

  • Load dishwasher
  • Take pets for a walk
  • Cook simple foods

Chores for Kids Ages 10+

  • Unload dishwasher
  • Baby-sit younger kids
  • Clean the kitchen
  • Change bed sheets
  • Wash the car

As you can see, a printable chore chart can do wonders for your household. Hold your kids responsible for their own chores and you will teach them lessons that they will take with them for years to come.

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